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Who's more to blame for early/unwanted pregnancy?

ahhh...
not sure if my topic is in the right forum...
related din naman kasi sa pregnancy...
hehehe...
pakimove na lang or delete kung mali...

anyway... enough with intro churva...
i just want to hear your opinions...
hindi naman natin maitatanggi na sa panahon ngayon...
madami na ang nabubuntis at a very age...

para kasi sa'kin... wala naman talagang dapat sisihin dun...
they do the deed... meaning... ready din sila kung anu man ang maging result ng ginawa nila...
Last update on May 28, 2010 10:35 am by Diwata.
asus kung may nabuo... pareho silang mali...
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:31 pm by administrator.
^^ganyan din ang palagay ko ate ikay...
tama ka dyan...

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naisip ko lang kasing gawin ang topic na 'to dito dahil isa 'to sa questions sa survey na sinagutan ko from the nursing aide students sa school namin...
hehehe....
eh... naisip kong maganda 'tong topic sa forum...
hahaha...

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back to the topic...
boys & girls kasi ngayon eh masyadong adventurous...
so kapag may nabuo na... sila din ang may kasalanan kasi ginawa nila yun...
they should have thought of the consequences bago nila ginawa yun...
Last update on February 3, 2011 7:51 pm by RiDz.
tsk... tsk... sa bakbakan sa kama wak kakalimutan ang mga supply ng armor (condom)
Last update on February 3, 2011 7:49 pm by RiDz.
pag nabuo panagutan ginusto ninyo yun..
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:32 pm by administrator.
Life, Love and a Pack of Cigarettes
"unwanted pregnancy", seems vague to me. do you mean in situations like rape? or accidental between lovers' intercourse? either way, i think most females would blame the male if they get pregnant (don't deny). but between couples, it's common sense that both are responsible for the unexpected situation.
"I am not in this world to live up to your expectations, and you are not in this world to live up to mine." - Fritz Perls
no never. i dont want to get pregnant!
ayoko magkaanak! aun.

comment ko? wala akong masabe. basta saken, dapat planado buhay niu ng d kau mging kuwawa sa huli.
I <3 my Haters, they are my Fans XD
Oh well actually, it is quite certain pag ginusto nila, it is both their responsibility. They're both to be blame

Goddamnshit. Pero sobrang kawawa ang girl sa ganitong situation. And if ever the boy leaves because of the girl being pregnant fvck those bastards! They are the one to be blame.
Last update on February 3, 2011 7:53 pm by RiDz.
LOVE IS PLAIN STUPID
wala dapat i blame ... dapat kasi nag condom sila eh... ahaha!!
yeah ryt. ders no such things as accident!!

and abortion, ngaun plang , sinusunog na kaluluwa natin sa impyerno.
I <3 my Haters, they are my Fans XD
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Originally posted by: "ikay
depende sa sitwasyon. Eh pano kung No ng No yung girl pero si putotoy eh hindi na pala makapag hintay, kaya ayun, nahantong naman sa rape.icon_smile

Of course, thats a different story na. On topic, There's no one to blame kundi silang dalawa rin. Sa umpisang ginawa nila ang bagay na yun, they should be aware of what are the possible things that might happen na magiging bunga ng gagawin nila.

At pano sila magiging aware? dito naman papasok yung Sex education, kung san ba siya dapat ituro, having the fact na hindi magiging biased ang pagtuturo sa ating mga kabataan ng tungkol sa sex at kung ano ang pwedeng mangyari sa kanila after doing the deed.

Very nice advice there. Well in this days yung early/unwanted pregnancy ay masyado ng kumakalat ngayon. They know what to do but still they dont use some contraceptives like pills and condoms. Condoms are very cheap and you can buy 3pcs for just 30 pesos or 40. For men try premiere ultra thin condoms so you will be comfortable and you can really feel it just like your not wearing anything. For the female pills are advisable but you must go and consult a doctor before using because it may have some side effects on you. Its just a matter of stupidity and not thinking before doing it. They must learn how to use contraceptives or natural birth control (if you really know about it) like withdrawal and calendar method but its not really quite safe if the female has an irregular menstration.
Last update on February 3, 2011 7:54 pm by RiDz.
anong meron dito.. sorry na late ako.......
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:33 pm by administrator.
"Wag Mashadong ma Drama sa Buhay.."

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ang dapat sisihin ay ang gobyerno..


kahit anong ang gawin ng isang babae na pagsisi sa lalaki, siya pa din ang kawawa at masama at immoral sa mata ng tao at sira ang mga pangarap..
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:33 pm by administrator.
...wala dapat sisihin...
..hindi dapat magsisihan in the first place...
...matuto nalang sa pagkasemplang...
..alam nyo ba ung: true love waits?..
..not sure kung seminar or camp un...
..pero sabi effective un para mamulat mga kabataan saka maturuan na i focus ang attention sa ibang bagay...

...para sa iyo ito: mag aral ka ng mabuti...nagpapakamatay tatay mu sa ibang bansa..nakikipags3x marathon kpa...nd ka maganda kasi marami kang bf...tuwang tuwa kpa sa galak sa ginagawa mu...iyak tawa ka kapag na karma ka ng malupit (wag sana)..sabihin mu tsamba...wag ka kasi puro txt at fs nlang...pati sarili mu kinakatamaran mu na...mabait ka sana.."sana"...ambata mu pa...hintayin mung umabot ka sa age q...malamang papakawalan ka na nun ni mudang...tiis lan...an hirap sau masyado mu iniisip an sarili mu...tandaan mu mas masuwerte ka sa iba...alam mu aman un ih...naman talaga..bkt kasi nd na tau mkapgusap...o ayan..and2 kna sa site nila...may mapulot ka sanang maganda...
*may naalala lang kaya dito ndn nilagay*
mababasa mu 2..alam q...
...if you don't like me... ..why do you talk so much about me?...
walang ibang dapat sisihin.. kundi mga sarili..my isip nman.. alam ng mali sige parin.sows....

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Pareho kayong tatanga-tanga,
yeah
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:34 pm by administrator.
"Wag Mashadong ma Drama sa Buhay.."

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whose to blame?boys or girls?

huh...why don't we blame ourselves?of course if i do something wrong and the effect is not good, i'll put a blame on you, and you'll do that way too don't you?

we always have two choices, it's up to you what will you choose.
1+1=2, a=1 ; a+a(a^2)=2a^3

divina! you big meanie!
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:34 pm by administrator.
Add me :arrow:Facebook Your brain has been canceled due to lack of intelligence.
dis is nice topic.

madame nqng friends, may anak na ngaun. nakita ko gano nagbago buhay nila.

i cant imagine myself sucked by a baby!
i dont want to be a mother. eeww
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Originally posted by: "rakista08diosa
waah
tagus tagusan!
cguro nman alam n nang ibang member ng clan ung bout sa nangyare sa situation q!
ung pinost q sa "love problems need advce thread ni kuya eneshi"!!
actually i got pregnant already!!
pro pina abort q..
pro ngaun sbrang pnagccchan q lalo n nung ndi nalaglag ung bata at nakunan p aq!
nakunan aq nun cguro mga 4 mos n ung baby en nag form n tlaga ung fetus..
kea nga nung nkita q baby naguilty tlaga aq..
baby boy p nman..

en ang tanong?
cnu dpat iblame?
preho kc gnusto nio un preho eh.
depende nlang cguro kng finoforce k ng guy!

kya un!
wag kyong padalos dalos kc bka bandang huli pgcchan nio dn bandang huli!!


Because you and your x boyfriend are not aware. Kasalanan niyo yun. Go back and read the sexually speaking thread for more advice. whore.
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:35 pm by administrator.
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Originally posted by: "delubyo_tres_ekis
^ kung may mkakapagbago ng utak ko. ngaun plang, pinaplano ko buhay ko. gusto ko ksi ung nasa panahon xa at ung hnde ko pagsisisihan. d ko talaga maimagine. natatakot akong baka, xa ung maging karma ng kalokohan ko. ayoko tlga.

id maybe want a siberrean cat.


Your just not ready to be a mother. Simple as that. Dapat yun nalang agad ang sabihin mo isimplify mo nalang.
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:35 pm by administrator.
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Originally posted by: "crucifiedwhore
^a piece of advice.. you're better off speaking in tagalog.


I agree.
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:39 pm by administrator.
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Originally posted by: "delubyo_tres_ekis
^ kung may mkakapagbago ng utak ko. ngaun plang, pinaplano ko buhay ko. gusto ko ksi ung nasa panahon xa at ung hnde ko pagsisisihan. d ko talaga maimagine. natatakot akong baka, xa ung maging karma ng kalokohan ko. ayoko tlga.

id maybe want a siberrean cat.


Your just not ready to be a mother. Simple as that. Dapat yun nalang agad ang sabihin mo isimplify mo nalang.



hnde sa pagiging ready, wel xmpre kasama un.

i just dont want to e a mother! as in ayoko.
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:38 pm by administrator.
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Originally posted by: "kittiekurr
Hmm... Sa tingin ko, sa situation na katulad nyan.... eh mas malaki yung percentage na dapat sisihin ang babae. Kasi nasa kanya naman talaga yung control. May choice siya na magsabi ng "no".


panu ang kaso ng "rape?!" ehehe

pero kung sinadya nilang pareho, pareho silang may kasalanan.. bastah ba pananagutan ni boy diba?!
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:36 pm by administrator.
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sige ako na ang may kasalanan.

ano ba ang punto ng pagtatanong kung sino dapat sisihin kung hindi naman dapat magsisihan sa ganitong sitwasyon in the first place?
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Originally posted by: "Valerie
"unwanted pregnancy", seems vague to me. do you mean in situations like rape? or accidental between lovers' intercourse? either way, i think most females would blame the male if they get pregnant (don't deny). but between couples, it's common sense that both are responsible for the unexpected situation.


Very True valeleng.

Pero para saken, lalake ang dapat i-blame dyan eh. Baket? Tulad ng sabi ni Ikay kahit no ng no ang babae eh pagnasobrahan sa pilit yan at si manoy eh di na kayang makapagtiis e mahahantong sa rape yan. Lalaki talaga ang may hawak ng susi dyan kasi mga lalaki ang lalabasan at kailangan kami ang magpigil at mag manage kung saan namen yun dapat ilabas. Control ika nga, kaya di reason yun "nadisgrasya ko" o "di ko sinasadya na dun lumabas" LOL!

Self Control!
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:37 pm by administrator.
To ALL imbeciles out there being stupid is a choice.
sakin walang dapat si2hin..ginwa yan eh..kahit di mo iniexpect yan..alam nmn siguro ntin n my posibilidad n mgkabuntisan di ba...kya dapt laging handa..kung sakin mangyari yan ok lang..kung ayw nya sa baby e di bigay nya sakin ako bu2hay..
"Its better to be hated for what you are..than to be loved for what you are not.."
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Originally posted by: "2drvnk2fvck
both tangina responsibilidad nyo magsipag-ingat kahit withdrawal pa yan di parin safe.

hahah taena nagmura na si pong haha! <!

Pero sus miyo wag kasing tira pasok. Yun lang. Saka wag buka ng buka baka mahanginan
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:37 pm by administrator.
To ALL imbeciles out there being stupid is a choice.
kung sino malibog sya may kasalanan...
FORT EN VICTORIEUX
KALALAkwehan ang may kasalanan! di hamak mas matindi ang libido namin AW!
Last update on February 3, 2011 2:39 pm by administrator.
rak ng rak basta may guguhitan pa <br /><br /><br />roll ng roll habang may hihit hitin pa <br /><br /><br />rak en roll hangang BUHAY pa
nyay.. dpat may ba may sisihan? well in my case.. its not unwanted... its early pregnancy..

sbi ni neil sa lahat daw ng teenager n nabuntis ako ang masaya... y not? its a gift.. an angel.. bkt ndi ako matutuwa... ska alam kong kaya ko.. but the thing is ndi pla.. kulang ako financially..

kya guys.. wish me luck.. hehe..
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